biluz:

actually. i unironically hope every straight woman, especially straight trans women and/or women of color, find healthy, fulfilling relationships with men. i dont hate these women for seeking relationships with men and solely men. i dont think they deserve abuse because oh, well, they chose to be with men. i can acknowledge and hope they do as well the privilege they hold over me if they are cishet, but i do not actively wish them harm or think they asked for it for being with men. so. yeah idk